Why do i even bother dating
I am successful at my career and have been divorced for over a year.I don't even understand why guys bother messaging a woman if they have no desire to actually meet.Made some derogatory comments about my town and the people in it and then said he couldn't wait to meet me. There are obviously no single, decent, guys in my age group in this world. When I was single I would usually send out messages to about 10-20 different girls I thought were attractive.Usually this resulted in a few phone numbers and 2-3 dates. Then it's either gross sexual advances, dick pics, or ghosting. In a study by Abodo that surveyed 4,000 college students, 44 percent of them confessed to using dating apps while they had a partner. They’re just going on dating apps to “window shop” even though they can’t afford to invest in someone new because they already have someone at home. Because of this, they don’t give you their full attention, which makes you wonder if they’re really into you.The truth is, they’re too busy chatting up six different women.If you are not very attractive and have a good paying job, most women wouldn't even bother with you.
You swipe right, start chatting and then realize the guy you thought had potential is really just confused AF.
He was supposed to text me with the place...never heard back. I just want to meet a guy and see if I like him first. Maybe your messages suck or your profile makes you look slutty or you’re shooting out of your league or you have bad taste in men, it could be a million different things I mean it sounds like you and that guy were not looking for the same thing, so not surprised he ghosted you.